1.
Pausing
a. We will pause for a minimum of 5
seconds (to train ourselves to be aware of pausing).
b. We will use this 5 second pause in
exchanges of ideas or during discussions.
c. If the pausing isn’t happening for
long enough, we should feel free and comfortable to mention this and ask others
to be mindful of pauses (ask for longer pausing).
2.
Paying Attention to Self and Others
We will be mindful of:
a. Our talking time.
b. Our reaction to others.
c. Confusion or frustration in others.
d. Respecting critical thinking from
others.
e. The group agenda.
3.
Paraphrasing
We will paraphrase by using an “I” statement:
“I’m
feeling/noticing/wondering/questioning (etc) ________________________________.
Can we pause and reflect on
how this relates to our understanding of ________________.”
4.
Ideas on and off the Table
a. When ideas are brought to the table,
they must be accompanied by some supporting research/data.
i. If we presume positive intentions when
an idea is put on the table, this facilitates respectful discussion.
ii. The conversation that results from
discussing ideas can lead to deeper understanding.
Our PLC
meetings take place with a presumption of positive intentions.